High blood pressure despite all efforts: The silent struggle of “perfect" patients

What’s happening when blood pressure stays high despite treatment?

What is resistant hypertension?

Resistant hypertension is defined as blood pressure that remains above target levels (usually 140/90 mmHg) despite taking three or more antihypertensive medications from different classes, including a diuretic, all at optimal doses.

It affects about 10% of people with high blood pressure. In some cases, a fourth medication can bring blood pressure under control, but for others, even intensified therapy does not lead to success.

Why won’t the blood pressure come down?

Before diagnosing true resistance, it’s essential to rule out other contributing factors. This could be a measurement error (checking blood pressure in a stressful setting or on only one arm), the white coat effect (anxiety in a medical setting temporarily raises blood pressure), or non-adherence (medications are not taken as prescribed, whether intentionally or accidentally)

However, in truly adherent patients, there are several possible explanations:

Biological causes may include:

• Hormonal disorders (like hyperaldosteronism or pheochromocytoma)
• Kidney disease
• Genetic predisposition

Environmental or behavioural causes may include:

• Chronic stress
• Poor sleep or undiagnosed sleep apnoea
• Drug interactions, particularly with NSAIDs or some antidepressants

In some cases, no clear cause can be identified, further deepening the sense of frustration and helplessness for affected patients.

The paradox of the “perfect patient”: Following treatment with no improvement

Strict adherence but no results

Adherence to treatment, meaning the patient takes all medications correctly and consistently, is often assumed to be the main reason for treatment failure. But many patients follow their care plans to the letter, and then some.

They take their medication at the same time every day, cut back on salt, quit smoking, limit caffeine, walk daily, meditate, and attend regular check-ups. And yet, their blood pressure remains high.

This disconnect undermines the commonly held belief that “effort = improvement,” a principle often emphasized in medical care. It can lead to deep frustration, emotional fatigue, and discouragement.

The mental burden of living with chronic illness

For these “perfect patients,” the condition becomes a constant mental load. Every decision, from what to eat, to when to take medication, to how to avoid stress, is filtered through the lens of their health.

When all this discipline yields no visible result, it can lead to emotional exhaustion. The persistently high blood pressure becomes more than a number; it feels like a symbol of failure, unfair and demoralizing.

When the medical system doesn’t believe you: Feeling misunderstood

Being heard when the numbers don’t tell the whole story

In these situations, patients often feel misunderstood by healthcare providers. Some doctors may subtly suggest that the patient isn’t following instructions properly. Others may focus strictly on numbers and lab results, without asking how the patient is coping emotionally.

This lack of recognition creates a “double burden”: not only is the condition not improving, but the patient may feel judged, doubted, or even ignored.

For those living with chronic illness, being listened to and believed is vital. A lack of improvement should never be seen as proof of a lack of effort.

Recognizing the patient’s journey

People living with resistant hypertension often have a long and complex medical history. They’re not asking for praise, they simply want their commitment to be acknowledged.

They’re not looking to complain. What they want most is to understand why their blood pressure remains high despite doing everything right.

Acknowledging their experience isn’t just a matter of empathy, it’s a way to strengthen the therapeutic relationship and give patients back a sense of control in their care.

What can be done when blood pressure stays high no matter what?

Exploring alternative treatment strategies

When facing resistant hypertension, several options should be explored. The first consists of reassessing current treatment. Some drug combinations are more effective than others, and side effects may influence how well the treatment works. It is also important to investigate secondary causes through blood tests, hormone panels, and kidney evaluations to help uncover hidden contributors.

At the same time, complementary approaches may offer additional benefits. Studies have shown that practices such as yoga or tai chi, breathing exercises like cardiac coherence, and stress management therapies can help support better blood pressure control alongside medication.

Seeking a second opinion

If a patient feels stuck, getting a second medical opinion can be a game-changer. Specialist hypertension centres, often based in university hospitals, have access to advanced diagnostic tools and deeper expertise.

A fresh perspective can lead to a re-evaluation of treatment, the discovery of rare causes, or simply a new strategy that brings relief.

Importantly, it can also restore a sense of hope and trust in the care process.

Conclusion: Restoring hope for “perfect patients”

Resistant hypertension is both a medical and human challenge. It tests a person’s patience, strength, and belief in the system.

Acknowledging the effort of these “perfect patients,” validating their frustration, and treating their emotional pain is not an afterthought, it’s essential.

It’s the foundation of a more compassionate and effective approach to care. One that doesn’t just manage blood pressure, but also alleviates the emotional pressure carried by those who keep fighting, even when the numbers don’t budge.

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