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The role of loved ones in managing chronic illness: Support or added pressure?

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14/09/2024 at 00:00

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Hello everyone!

How are you doing today? 😊

Having the support of family or close friends can be incredibly helpful when managing a chronic illness. But sometimes, even the most well-meaning loved ones can add stress. Whether it’s through high expectations, constant check-ins, or unintentional pressure to “get better,” it’s easy to feel overwhelmed.

Have your loved ones been a source of comfort, or do their concerns sometimes feel like an additional burden? How do you balance accepting help while maintaining your independence? Do you have any strategies to communicate your needs or set boundaries? 🧠💪

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We’d love to hear your experiences and advice on how to navigate this delicate balance! 💬

Take care and looking forward to hearing your thoughts,

Warmly,

Somya from the Carenity team 🌼

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22/09/2024 at 17:23

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Before this can be discussed, we need to differentiate berween "support" and "obligatory involvement".

How many, in social media, consider a one-click emoji support?



The role of loved ones in managing chronic illness: Support or added pressure? https://www.carenity.co.uk/forum/other-discussions/good-to-know/the-role-of-loved-ones-in-managing-chronic-illness-support-or-added-pressure-5384 2024-09-22 17:23:20

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I have had help and support from friends and a faraway( distance) family member who I opened up to, ( MH.) I feel relatively stable but there are always dark thoughts lurking in the back of my mind and it doesn't take much for them to become more prominent when I'm going through a bad patch. I'm thankful to local MH services for contact details of crisis teams etc, should the situation become desperate. I have been afraid of acting spontaneously and those thoughts come and go but I look for distractions even during meltdowns.


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@SP3RDN4 - More often than not, these acts are more blunder than they are a blessing.  Much of this is because social media has completely ruined the meaning of the word "friend". 

We need to learn how to  differentiate between acquaintances and friends.

True friends are very, very rare.

I hope you find yours.


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I'm struggling to get my head around what you say about true friends and acquaintnces. I have met friends in person as well as those who like to think they're ' friends .' I don't engage much with social media, it all seems very superficial to me, so I bypass all the crap I've heard about it. I've always been introverted, so to open up has been somewhat difficult. I can be more open with some more than others and they have taken time to listen, as I have them. Of course, there are those who get in touch when they want something, that makes me wary and suspicious.


The role of loved ones in managing chronic illness: Support or added pressure? https://www.carenity.co.uk/forum/other-discussions/good-to-know/the-role-of-loved-ones-in-managing-chronic-illness-support-or-added-pressure-5384 2024-09-23 13:55:27

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