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Financial stress & chronic illness: Have you ever felt embarrassed to ask for help? 💸

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30/09/2025 at 18:00

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Hi everyone,

Managing a chronic illness often comes with hidden (and not-so-hidden) costs, like medications, transport, missed work, dietary needs, specialist fees… It adds up. For many, the financial burden can be as overwhelming as the illness itself.

But asking for help isn’t always easy. Whether it’s from friends, family, charities, or government services, that conversation can bring up feelings of shame, guilt, or pride.

💬 So today, we’re opening up about this:

  • Have you ever found the financial side of your illness hard to manage?
  • Have you felt uncomfortable or embarrassed asking for help?
  • What helped you cope, practically or emotionally?
  • Is there something you wish others understood about the cost of being sick?

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Your voice might make someone else feel seen, or even a little less alone.

Take care,
Somya from the Carenity team 🌼

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No, issues for money as a crip I was not working at the time so quite use to low income that did not vary during my treatment. But what I did notice when approaching charities for help there was none, all they wanted was contributions. Perhaps the best one was dealing with the hospice who did provide respite in the latter stages of dying. That was very useful at the time as we were all exhausted in the later stages, the overnight watch allowed us to recharge. From the British Heart Foundation, MacMillan and Diabetic Charities were useless, just a few leaflets, not allowing us to address our deep concerns of treatment!

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