Hi, I'm looking for a bit of advice. I met someone from a dating website on Wed for the first time. We had another date last night. I've been single for 7yrs, so yeah quite a while. Last night he picked up on me maybe being a bit anxious. He was aware that I don't work right now, so yeah I bit the bullet and mentioned my bipolar. His response was that he had already thought that I may have had some sort of issue,or that maybe I had a rough time with my last relationship. Have I mentioned stuff too soon ? He said last night my bipolar didn't bother him, but could see that I was worrying about what his thoughts were. Last night had been going really well, up until the above happened and then he asked me if I was ready to move on and have another relationship. I really like this guy and right now I'm a bit lost as to what I should do next.
hi thanks for the reply stu was really helpful thanks im also a member of plenty of fish and signed upto what was supposed to of been free dating sites but turns out there not really free as i been bumped a few times for cash which made me a little angry to be honest which didnt help because of my depression it made me sink even more low but im ok now as my bank reimburst me back.
Well just wondering if everyone is all loved up now? I've had a few dates but none have worked out for one reason or another. Good to hear you managed to get reimbursed for the money you'd payed out Roberto. I know I learned my lesson the expensive way but now know how to handle it in the future. Main thing is put a stop on the standing order which you normally don't know you've signed up to until you get your bank statement. What I've also found that some of these dating sites have people planted on them so they send messages which you can only see once you pay and then you hear nothing more from them once they have your money!
So happy hunting and hope you find your soul mate and your very happy together. Myself I think I'm chatting to someone lol but there not well at present, so not heard from them in a few weeks or maybe they've dumped me!!! Only time will tell lol If I have been dumped I think I'm not going to bother any more as I'm a big softy at heart and I'm fed up with being hurt so much.
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Hi, I'm looking for a bit of advice. I met someone from a dating website on Wed for the first time. We had another date last night. I've been single for 7yrs, so yeah quite a while. Last night he picked up on me maybe being a bit anxious. He was aware that I don't work right now, so yeah I bit the bullet and mentioned my bipolar. His response was that he had already thought that I may have had some sort of issue,or that maybe I had a rough time with my last relationship. Have I mentioned stuff too soon ? He said last night my bipolar didn't bother him, but could see that I was worrying about what his thoughts were. Last night had been going really well, up until the above happened and then he asked me if I was ready to move on and have another relationship. I really like this guy and right now I'm a bit lost as to what I should do next.
Hope someone can give me some advice.
Love Deb
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